Vanessa Marin is a New York Times Bestselling author and licensed sex therapist with more than 20 years of experience helping long-term couples still want to have sex with each other. She co-wrote Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life with her husband and business partner, Xander Marin.

You’ve seen her in The New York Times, Vogue, Harper’s Bazaar, People, and O, The Oprah Magazine, and heard her on top podcasts like Armchair Expert, The Mel Robbins Show, and We Can Do Hard Things.

She’s built a community of two million people who turn to her for practical, powerful, and laugh-out-loud relatable advice for making sex feel fun and crave-worthy again.

Because at the end of the day, who wants to be roommates?

Follow @vanessaandxander on Instagram for daily laughs and totally doable tips, and check out the Ultimate Foreplay Guide and Ultimate Sex Positions at VanessaAndXander.com